I find it tough with having to think of housing and college for one kid; I can't imagine how much tougher it is for you.
The other dbers have given you good advice and I really haven't had anything more to add. But is there a way for Mr F not to renege on his fins promises? Any way to arm twist him legally?
D is not fair. It's not fair that people who have so cruelly wrecked our lives can so blithely escape the wrath of karma while we are left behind picking the pieces of our lives.
Wrt to the laundry. I stuff all the washed stuff into the cupboards and only iron the bare minimum. And the dishes in the sink? Let's just say that the food crumbs have been feeding a colony of corpulent gheckos.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.