Still not a lot to update. Life is going along well. Between coaching and gal things are good.

S3 started t-ball this last week and loved it. I planned all the summer holidays dates with my kids and discussed them with the respective mothers. Big 180 for me to plan that stuff. If I want them when I want that's what I have to do tho.

I am planning on taking a trip to see inlaws with the all the kids. I don't expect ExW to be happy about it, she can suck it up. From what she has told me she doesn't talk to her family anymore.

Her choice. I don't talk to her often. Only about the kids if there is a question about exchange. She tends to small talk when we meet. I listen and get out of there ASAP.

I don't want to spend any time with her o don't have to. She lasted "on her own". Like she wanted maybe a month. Now she is living g at OM house. Probably smart on her part. Saves a lot of money.

Personally I have been thinking of getting g the D started. We have to have been apart for a year to get a D or one party has to admit to adultery or abuse. However we can get everything ready and then At a year it's done.

I am happier in the last month or so than I have been in a long long time. So this was a blessing in disguise. I am very thankful for everyone who supported and slapped me around when I needed it. I'll still be back from time to time. I have been very busy and summer is coming.

3 weeks cigarette free! Pretty proud of that too.


The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.