Like I said, I haven't contacted her family. I'm putting my thoughts down - I considered it because I wanted a certain outcome, but after contemplating it there was a snowballs chance I would get that outcome.
In-laws are never reliable. In my case, after I told my MIL what was REALLY happening, she was shocked and fully supported our marriage. She had a night of stern talking to my WW, sent her packing back home and ordered her to stay home. That was all good until two weeks later, my WW apparently threatened to commit suicide if she made her stay in the marriage. Then MIL caved and gave her $6K for her L's retainer to sue me for divorce. :-(
Blood is thicker than water.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016