So, was out with a friend who also has contact with W occasionally.
According to him, W is happy with some things but not all but couldn't say what, she got her phone ID fixed. Is apparently looking for her own car but is taking care of her budget. I still don't know exactly what the other guy is, and no one seems to know. If he is some friend or more, however, how she talked about him to me was like she was planning something with him. I know, Sandi, you have said WW and I still believe that. I guess I see some control of what she is doing but still a lot of anger and wanting me to be friends with her. I guess, I questioned tonight if I'm on the right path of pulling away but friend also agrees that I shouldn't be including her in family things.
I am going to stay on the same path for me and I do understand that this could be very early in my situation, guess I was just questioning if I was really that poor a husband. I understand my errors and where I didn't learn the right relationship skills at the right time or soon enough, and am doing that now to become a better me for whoever may be next. I know that my relationship with my kids is so much better than before when I was away too much building our house.
It did help my confidence that I have had a 29 year old, and a 30 year old interested in me. I'm not really looking for anything else right now but it did feel good.
