hi DBers, I don't know how you all keep up with all these forums and posts...how does this work? Will anyone see this? Yesterday was a wash - I was so sleep deprived just gave up and realized - nothing good will happen in my brain today- and proceeded to watch 3 hours of Netflix. Today - a different attitude. I spoke to my DB coach yesterday and he gave me some great advice on how to respond to an email my husband sent last SAturday. So hard not signing it with 'love'. I was brief and to the point and friendly but didn't even address his mention of 'legal' details. It's not even 3 weeks! The more I read here the stronger my faith grows that we can make it work and I have a lot of power to change the course of events. He has no idea what I know now...the secret DB code! Started my solution journal - we shall see his response to my email...My DB coach helped me realize not to make up stories about a financial situation so as not to piss of my H...which would have been my normal codependent route - avoid conflict at any cost. Really scary just being honest and not going into a long explanation and a 'story'. So tired of having to explain myself to feel I might get a crust of love!
I am blathering on. Love to hear from anyone out there and read what's happening with you today?
