How do you decide when to throw in the towel? Only 3 weeks into separation but the A probably had been going on for a year. The more I think about the M the more

I'm beginning to wonder whether it's truly worth saving. I love my W but we had our fair share of issues and were never really aligned on our values.

Perhaps this is just part of the grieving process. Will certainly help me GAL...

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17