Hi Feyth, I don't think you should feel bad about the choices you're making. You weren't the one who chose to leave the M and you are now moving forward with the rest of your life. For much longer M's and where you have kids together, I understand people choosing to stand in hope of a restored M for a good while. However, I also think that for a young woman like you, who hopes to have a family some day, it would be a shame to wait and wait for a guy who may or may not wake up and turn back to his M.

I think the main thing is to learn the lessons about ourselves from this process and carry them forward with us for the future. Take your time with new guy and enjoy the sparkle of a new romance. I'm cheering you on!

Take care and have some fun xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus