Any other rules of tips with was initiates NO contact unless about practical stuff, eg meeting with a mediator to discuss splitting assets? H Won't even tell me what are of town (arrived 3 mo ago no idea he was planing to leave and stay here, we're supposed to leave a month ago together). I did NOT contact him at all on his birthday this week. It killed me but it was the only thing I coudl think to do. He goes up to three weeks wo contact and never returned my intial email letters or infrequent friendly texts. We met with a priest three weeks ago and it was basically him rewriting history saying hurtful things like sorry I wasted last six years of your life, we never really dated (lie), cold hard walled off Compeltely. Had me served S papers in church parking lot afterwards.