Thank you lim. So so hard. But trying. Appreciate the words of hope and encouragement
So H behavior is common? All the things he's doing and not doing? And doesn't mean all is lost?
I am filing my "response" this week at end of the 30 day required period so doesn't go to default. It's avery easy liberal state to end it all and he has consorted with his l uncle and who knows who else. Feel so betrayed. I'm concenred when I file, which says I don't agree with d and don't agree with terms and want counseling (and my L included life insuracne?? I don't know why and spousal support, which I very very begrudgingly accepted only out of absolute necessity as I search for more than minimum wage jobs). Afraid this will tick him and his family off since he was resentful of carrying me emotionally and financially all our marraige. I regret that. Getting a great paying job suddenly in new city with no real socail support during this crisis is grueling
