I'm glad to see that you are still enjoying your car. It took you a while to decide to purchase it...but it was well worth the wait!
I'm sure your yard looks beautiful. You spend a great deal of time working in it and when it is all said and done, you can be proud of all of the hard work that you put into making it beautiful. The avocado festival sounded like fun. Gosh, you had a lot going on in the way of activities during the week. I do hope you carved out some time to "rest". LOL!
Enjoy yourself when you go to the vacation home in May. Try not to allow people or the way the place is redecorated to get you down. I'm sure you and your GF will have a great time and also spend quality time together while celebrating your special day. I like the fact that you are thinking of going out of the country for a vacation w/your GF. You've got a lot to look forward to and again, don't allow your MLCing h to bring you down. Stay positive and get those trip brochures out and start looking for a nice place to visit!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.