Pink, I'm very sorry about your h and him possibly remaining in contact w/the ow.
Good luck w/the job search. This should be a good time of the year to be searching for jobs. I do hope that you find a job that you will enjoy.
You are a strong, independent woman who knows exactly what she needs to do to move forward. I have no doubt that you are a success and will continue to be during your life's journey.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.