Feeling lost

[srt]

thanks Sandi, I guess I'd been unsure whether to remain the doormat and invite her to come along, or risk her goign in the huff.
What I'm going to do is go anyway, and if she wants to come she's going to have to speak up, contact me and turn up herself. She knows when the event is.
I certainly won't be inviting her or announcing what time I'm going.

I really do feel I've made some really important changes for me, also now realising the HUGE negative effect she allowed her family to have on her and our marriage.

Thanks