I am content, that is a blessing.......

[BrightFuture]

Mleigh, I hear you. I’ve been here 3 + years, and coming up to 4th anniversary of BD in a couple of months.

HaWho, I didn’t think I would be here for so long either. I have a “nice” MLCer too, and this could be a problem.

Mleigh, you gave you H a lot of time to figure himself out, and he still not close to be done. I don’t blame you for losing the patience and wanting to finally move on. I completely understand what you saying about him not making any decision and that eventually you will need to make it for him and for you. I am on the same boat. My H is not making any moves towards the D. I actually think that he’s been super nice because he doesn’t want me to make any moves either. Well… at some point I will need to do it.

I think you did great in these text exchanges with your H. I guess it comes the time when we need to shake a boat to see if things will just naturally fall out of it.