I went through it in a daze and put off things because I hated the process so much.

Is there any trusted friend who can sit down and go through this with you?

It's important to get your receipts, expenses in order. Good them listed out in a spreadsheet.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.