Originally Posted By: Ralph88
To be honest, I think I still want to save my marriage, but I care a little less if I'm alone in the long run.


Thats a good step Ralph. By being able to not care, you are detaching and your emotional state won't be controlled by her words or actions. Focus on you and your needs. Work on being awesome in every way. It will make you feel better about yourself and the side effect is that it will be attractive to her.


Me: 48 y/o
W: 47 y/o
Together: > 20 yrs
BD: Dec '15, then S
2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D
April '16: started piecing