Hi Cubebot, thank you for your posts on my thread, I have no idea how to change the internet connection you spoke of.
I felt sad reading your posts and how your WW is not very interested in your children. I really don't understand it at all. The one thing that pains me the most in all of this situation is the thought of having to send my children off for the day/night with their Dad and me not be with them.
It sounds like you are being a great Dad to make up for it, which is great. Wish my H wanted to be the best Dad ever like you and others on here.
I find it tricky walking the fine line you speak of too. It feels like every interaction is so contrived and fraught with danger!
Hi inpain,
I think @ BD I was more upset about being a Thursday and every other weekend father. The things my WW continues to do and her actions are really something I never expected from a mother. There is nothing that would prevent me from wanting to be with my children, and doing what is in their best interest. I sometimes do things that I know are counter DB (trying to facetime her when they ask etc.) I don't know if she see's this as pursuing, but when I do FT, I just push send give them the phone and leave the room. It's not for me it's for them and I know they love and miss their mother. Thank you for your motherly perspective.
