wow. I guess I'm right where I'm supposed to be - in excellent company, as one of my first thoughts this morning was wondering whether H is in MLC or was he always like this and just pretending to be someone else for 26 years?

As for you, my girl ... you haven't let anyone down at all! The MLCer will try the patience of a saint. At some point I think we all say, "enough already!"

Honey, three years! that's a long time to be in limbo. I think you have done a remarkable job with this sitch. Give yourself a break. Breathe. Listen to Job and Irish. xoxoxo and have a hug from me xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver