Starting to do things right?

[PacLove]

Been a few days since I posted... Wife's been in and out this week, definitely distancing herself emotionally but still wanting to be a part of our lives and has been taking care of D. She ended up sleeping in her room one night as she was working late until 2am and I guess didn't want to drive home.

She's also planning to stop by tonight to drop stuff off for D - I don't plan on being home when she does... it's not "her weekend" with D.

She also wants to come by the house over the weekend to help with an outdoor project we had planned. Part of me wants to tell her I'll take care of it myself, the other part of me sees it as an opportunity to work together and grow the connection. Just trying to figure out how to propose it.

Had a bit of a heart to heart last night with D, W didn't really explain the whole separation thing all that well 2 weeks ago (lied about seeing her every 2nd day) so I had to tell D last night she won't see Mommy probably until next week. She started to ask if she wanted to be part of the family and if we were going to get a Divorce... broke my heart.

Still have the Birthday weekend coming up next weekend which W wants to go on... I may question her reasons for really wanting to go if I see her this weekend.