I haven't posted in a little while, I feel I am changing very fast the feelings of sadness and loss are getting less severe as time goes on. It's been almost 2 months now since W walked out.
My sitch just seems so much different to any others I read about here. She is not having an A and she is still very nice to me and contacts me everyday. That's what makes it hard for me with boundaries and how I should approach my sitch. I feel if I start to ignore the contact and try to create distance she will just stop contacting me and it will push us towards D.
At this point I don't instigate any contact and I only respond to about half the messages she sends me and I leave them sit for a while before I respond.
I'm GALing and spending time with my daughter being the best dad I can be but trying not to let my W influence what I do and moving on with or without her.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
