I'm asking myself the same question. But i think the answer is can be found from someone that I think was most inspirational...
“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.” ― Nelson Mandela, Long Walk to Freedom
“As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn't leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I'd still be in prison.”
...brings me to tears.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
