I think once we are denied something, it becomes that much more attractive. In my case, my WW claims it was just an EA, and I do believe it to be true (up until now), since the OM is an ocean away. Although it hurt me, I don't think it would be to the same degree as a PA. Also, my love after 18 years is still there, even though it is not reciprocated.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
