My story job 9140 (4)

[Jb9140]

Some thing has been bothering me lately, so I'm just going to throw this out here. I've always thought that cheating would be a deal breaker for me. I've have not found out that my spouse is having a affair or seeing anyone since we separated the first of this month. My observation is that most folks here seem to have spouses in affairs. I'm going to assume that most folks have always considered cheating as a deal breaker. What keeps you standing after you find out your spouse is in a affair. I've got a sneaky feeling I'm going to have to cross this scenario at some point. I truly want to try to be accepting of my wife , but I,m not sure I could get past behavior. Thought