Thanks, Phoebe and 1313 - I dodged the bullet, the business meeting took longer than planned and there will be no time to meet.

I can handle F, but it feels like it would be difficult to see someone from home right now. It would make me more homesick, I think.

Had a difficult phone conversation with H today about a financial matter - the first talk since I left. He was annoyed and a wall of ranting, it was hard to have an actual conversation. I sent him an e-mail afterwards with a suggestion to a solution that would be more beneficial to him than to me, but better in the long term for both.

I also added that I hoped we could get to a place where we communicate better.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17