Do you think that exposing this to OM2 and letting him know she is still M and has 5 boys will do anything? I know where he works also, not sure if OM2 is married.
Jim, Maybe. I know DB discourages it, but given that you are at a dead end with your WW you might want to try it, perhaps indirectly? Or find out if there's a Mrs. OM2? That's how I ended up exposing my WW's EA, I could not get her to R with me and she was in denial that it was ever an EA. I don't think most rational men would go out with a mom with five boys at those ages, even if they are super wealthy. Talk about coming with baggage! It does sound crazy to me that your WW would openly tell you that she is dating, at the same time trying to wrest custody from your hands. She must know that you will put up a fight with that!
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
