She texted me this last night:

Craig i need to talk to you about your recent texts.....while I'm glad you have had an awakening and you have found a new way to live your life. Treating people kindly and respecting their feelings should be the way everyone treats one another, but don't tell me this is the way you are going to be going forward, if it is only with the hopes and intentions of us getting back together. There has been to much damage and many hurtful words on your part to ever hope for anything other then just being there for the kids. If you are making a change, do it only because it makes you a better person not because there is any hope of reconnecting love between us, because I'm sorry, but that bridge has been burnt.

And then this this morning:

Kids are great....again it is great that you have had your awakening, but it doesn't change the fact that we are getting divorced and i am moving on with my life, do you understand?


Is there any hope after that? This was my response:

I understand where things are. Doesn't change the fact that I am going to treat you with respect and with dignity. I appreciate your honesty and directness.



Now she won't even respond to my text's about the kids. Is she testing me and confused that I am not getting angry like I would in the past?


Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16