Yes, I get what you're saying, Cadet. I've been thinking more along the lines of invasion of the body snatchers. : )

Yes, I certainly need to let him go. That is still a difficult work in progress -more work than progress, thus far.

Thank you for the reminder, Cadet.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16