Strange times, Painter. I think that I'd be inclined to give the F a wide berth. You're committed to seeing him, but I'd try to stick to some very public spaces.
If you feel uncomfortable for any reason, listen to yourself.
I find that that little voice telling me "this is really ______ " is almost always right.
Good luck, Miss Painter!!!
H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16