Strange times, Painter. I think that I'd be inclined to give the F a wide berth. You're committed to seeing him, but I'd try to stick to some very public spaces.

If you feel uncomfortable for any reason, listen to yourself.

I find that that little voice telling me "this is really ______ " is almost always right.

Good luck, Miss Painter!!!


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16