I am so happy to hear that you dinner went well, NYGal. You did great, and I think that your'e totally right to take it very slowly and cautiously at this point.

annab74 is right - she needs to win YOU back now, not the other way around.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16