Jim, I wasn't thinking about the money to raise 5 sons, but rather the emotional and physical work involved. Do these OM's realize what they are in for potentially? Plus a messy divorce?
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016