After tossing and turning last night, I'm pretty tired. Feeling even more cautious today than last night. W said the split with ow was "mostly mutual". I wondered who was not so certain but didn't ask. Then at one point she said she doesn't even want to be friends with her. (That was a huge relief, but I'm being cautious about believing it.) Also said ow called and texted her about having dinner last night and W said no. Sounds like ow needs to get on here and learn some good DB techniques!

Next steps are crucial, I know that. I will let her make the next move. There was talk of yoga tonight and Sunday morning, but I'm not going to go, at least not tonight. I'm going to GAL instead! And the plan is to hike on Sunday.

I'm focused on staying calm and detached as best I can. Not easy for me! Let ow push and beg and pursue. NYGal is going to back off a bit.

11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat