Wow, that's truly AMAZING! You must be super proud about that - how old are they?
S11 D9 I do feel good about my increased connection with the kids. That is one of the things I have learned from reading about and talking to others who have gotten D, that if it hadn't happened, they never would have gotten so close to their kids. I just wish there was a different wake-up call that wasn't so traumatic!
Originally Posted By: 1gr8dad
What if tomorrow she did want to come back. Are you ready? Is she ready? How have you each changed or learned from what happened? Do this work now as a solo partner.
I felt ready the day she left... I wanted to work through this process with her. I thought that weekly meetings with a MC, even if that was our only contact during that period, would have been hugely beneficial. I think it would have helped bring truth to her mind. I fear the truth will never be acknowledged otherwise. And maybe that is exactly the problem, I want to take control of the situation? I don't want to wait for W to come to her own conclusion? Part of my "fixer" attitude?
Thank you very much for taking time to read my story and respond, it is helpful!
