thanks for the insights and also for the GAL part. I have a life and I am getting involved in more and more activities, it is bugging her and I see it. Sometimes though, I want to stay at home and don't feel bad about it, for example friend called the other day if I wanted to go out for a beer - I did not feel like it since I had to drive and I have already been out all afternoon. What I feel is more annoying to me is that wife has less and less life outside gym, she is not meeting with friends, her activities have ceased, she is depressed more and more, and I am really annoyed when she stays at home instead of going for some activity that was already paid for, like foreign language class.
Boundaries, hard to maintain, she will try and is trying to get sex without commitment, and give me accusation questions like 'if you love me, why don't you want sex with me'... Sandi2, you wrote few posts back to give her question why she thinks this is so, but she does not want to answer that, she is just playing stupid.
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room
