Two updates.

1) I told my wife a few nights ago that she must cease all communication with her former EA including not being friends on FB. She told me that was unfair, but I notice she has unfriended him. She hasn't said anything to me.

2) I'm leaving for the weekend to give her space. By what I see on this forum, most people believe she should be the one to leave. My belief is she should get a dose of real life, her alone with a house and kids, not a free weekend to do as she pleases.

A friend told me yesterday "The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. The grass is greener wherever it gets watered, fertilized and cared for." If she doesn't want to water and fertilize and take care of our family of course the grass will turn brown.