Unfortunately I'm back

[cbtdad]

Unfortunately I don't think demanding her for us to be in the same bedroom at this time is the right move. One of her complaints is me being controlling. She also said last night that everything I say all the time sounds like accusations. Like asking who she is texting, where she has been, etc
I admit the hardest thing since we have reconciled is me trusting her unconditionally.
I know the 3 things I need to work on and those are trust, accepting her for who she is and supporting her 100 percent
If I can do those things we should be fine.
She even mentioned a couple times yesterday about "us" moving. Looking at homes so her dad can have a bedroom on first floor when he visits(he's in a wheelchair).
I agree we shouldn't be throwing out D word or separation and Lord knows I was the worst about it. Its got to stop though.
She hasn't been wearing her weeding ring for about a month now and that bothers me. I don't know how to bring that up without being "controlling' at the moment.
She is going to a music festival with an old girlfriend this weekend who I don't think is my biggest ally. This weekend is going to definitely give me anxiety because I worry when you combine where we are at with alcohol and an old friend like that it could lead to something bad. I know I cant control that and only control what I can, but it gets me stressed when I think about it