Ditto what TimR said.

I went through the mediation route with a L. And seriously, I regretted not asking for a few more opinions.

Btw, have you tried asking for a few more legal opinions?

My stance is that you should go for the jugular, or if you're feeling a little more merciful, a little to the left or right.

You need to take care of your kids. Do not go soft on H. You can still be civil and friendly but go for what you need.

From what I have read, your H sounds like my H and he may be quite the bully when it comes to fins?

(((Jjb)))

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.