There will come a point of detachment and your W will certainly know this. Expect anger, ranting and spew.
Underneath the anger is some issue that explains her anger. It may not be a real issue or even related to you or D17 although it will be an issue for W. Likely related to her childhood, her circus, her monkeys.
I know this peace and space, you need every moment for healing. Every precious drop.
You are working on you and for yourself and your children.
Let it unfold,you have the gift of time. Let the Ls so their work.
Your story of the toono made me smile greatly. It symbolises something to WAW. They were gifts to you, nothing can take that away from you.
Hugs
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW