Headed for D - Trying to move on

[J5K]

So found out tonight that STBXW has been emailing teachers and not copying me on the correspondence.

Also found that she went on a trip with OM while we were in the process of reconciling. She had S2 and had her mom watch him.
I do not know if there is any advantage to having this info for court or psych evaluation.

I will accept the fact that she will eventually meet someone else and remarry but I am not going to put up with her having physical custody of the boys and show that she can play mom when she wants.

I know it won't do any good to expose this to her that I know.
It stings my heart a bit but now I am even more upset and will fight for my kids. Morally this is just wrong what she is doing, but I guess some of my mistakes drove her to this.

I was such a fool, should have kept with the D when I filed.