I am content, that is a blessing.......

[Irish M]

I don't even know if this is MLC he is going through. For all I know, he is just a selfish jerk.

I also believe, MLC or not, you must have a trait, an ability, to treat someone who loves you so terribly. I don't think it goes away. Do I want to stay married to someone like that???

Hi Mleigh

MLC is a weird thing. It makes them do a 180 and also treat us like they feel we should treat them. Projecting it onto you in a horrible way.

I too would love to say that my new STBXW is the real her and the old one I knew for 17 years was the impostor. I don't think that's the case in my situation or yours. I have to remind myself they are irrational and illogical. When i remind myself of that it helps me detach.

I am lucky in a way, mine is a runner. Seeing her pop her head out of her hole every 2-3 months.
Just try to avoid his drama. Don't let it get to you. laugh it off and walk away. Your letter pointed out so much but an irrational person it won't register.

Limbo is what you make of it.

Hugs

Irish