Unfortunately I'm back

[cbtdad]

I was a regular on this site a few years ago. The wife and I had separated back in January of 2013 but reconciled in June of 2013.
Well here we are again. The last few weeks felt really familiar to what happened last time around so I wasn't shocked.
This time around she says that she wanted to separate and reset everything. I told her I understood why she felt that way and I didn't beg or please like last time. I learned a lot from last time on how not to act. lol
We are still seeing a marriage counselor every few weeks and went and saw him this afternoon. She and I decided to live in separate rooms for the time being and we are going to start seeing the MC every week for the next 8 weeks
The last time around she was upset because I was a terrible father, wasn't providing and wasn't there for her.
This time around its just the latter. Me verbally abusing her for no need, not trusting her still, and not supporting her on what she wants to do