I made some lists as well.. None of us are perfect and no marriages are perfect. You are doing well to look at your self and your own flaws. There are more, keep looking. Just remember that while these are what you are seeing as your failures, they may not have even been the big players in the failure of your M. You seeing them is you identifying things you want to work on for you. That is progress and personal growth. I would not share these with her.


Ralph88
Me 40s W 30s, D5 D3 , M7 T9
2013 B drop 1, EA found
2016 B drop 2, EA/PA?
2/16 Physical Seperation
2/16 I filed for D
4/16 PA Confirmed