Originally Posted By: Painter
He's had a lot longer than you to prepare for this emotionally, and he holds all the power right now. I wonder if there is a way you can find some power - it could help you feel more on top of this situation...

Have you ever tried hypnotherapy? I have and it actually helped me a lot!


I was thinking more about this and wonder if finding out what you want, what your bottom line is, would help you feel more grounded and not so at the mercy of what he decides?

I had to smile at Tim's very nicely worded comment about bringing your dad. If he's not one to hold his tongue, maybe you can give him the rest of the caramels NYGal doesn't stuff her mouth with tonight... grin

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17