Hi BluWave, I'm someone that wants the blunt strong tough responses so feel free. Something I always told my W, I miss the subtle signs too often, especially when life is busy. To the point is always better for me. Thank you again for coming here and sharing your experience, I am wanting to learn for my next relationship, whoever that may be with, to make it awesome.
I hear you on the wasted energy trying to figure them out, I have guilty of that too often.