I might be tempted to respond with, "Oh are you telling me that you want to work on our marriage? Because I would be more than happy to address all valid issues with you in a loving and supportive marriage.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction