Getting out of in house S (9)

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i think you can tell her you dont need the truck, you have it sorted out already, no more.

as far as what to say to wife about the S, prob nothing. just your actions. Be careful not to come across rude or angry, be cordial and upbeat when you have to communicate, but not overly fake. I know very fine line here. I dont know if this will make sense to you or anyone, but i started doing something i wish i did more of. whenever i see w i look straight in her eyes. it is hard to do without wanting to blurt out a bunch of stuff, but it helps me look into her soul a bit. She almost always looks away, but we share a moment. What this does is actually throws everything a way for a second and you actually see each other. Maybe this is ok for me now as there is no fighting or anything like that but I feel it shows my strength and i actually see her and not the front she is putting up.