Hey OTW,

So for my own sanity I need to keep a distance. That is the reason. As for reason to W, do I say I really want this S to work I need to keep my distance? I am guessing I say nothing about distance. And just talk through actions.

So for the truck I don't need to mention to her that I plan on moving all my stuff before she gets the truck and I wont even need the truck?

As for the childcare, I guess it would be up to the babysitter to show up early to look after the kids but I am home early. Then just have kid swaps at night. Something that needs to be worked out.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016