Sandi,
Not sure if you agree with Georgia's recommendations, they are very much 180 from yours. I'm very much conflicted on how to proceed right now.

In reality it is very difficult for me to "drop her." My S11's baseball games are public so she's going to invite herself to the game no matter what. We can sit far apart from each other (I've seen other divorced couples do that) but we cannot avoid seeing each other. Also the custody arrangement that we have is that she will take him to his practices on my days when they are early. (Little League always schedule 4pm team practices three times a week!)

The one thing I can do is stop inviting her to meals and just take S11 by ourselves whenever I can. I guess it depends on which way I go with this...


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016