New Couple, Same Old Story 2

[Ralph88]

My wife has sent me an email about communication counciling but only for the purpose of being better co-parents. She was completely overboard in referencing for the kids and repeatedly referenced easiest path for both of us (seperate lives). How do I respond and do I sign up for this?

My state already has a parenting class requirement. I have been darkish with her, but always respond about kids. I believe this may be an attempt to fulfill her fantasy of leaving me and hurting the kids but trying to be friends for the kids.