I am probably not being fair in my description. He doesn't see it as living a fantasy. He sees it as finding a relationship with someone whose sex drive is like his.
He wants someone who is overcome with passion. Apparently the fact that I ask if the door is locked indicates that I can never give him what he wants.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
