- Our MC was manipulated in seeing nothing wrong with my WWs behaviour. Going to use a different dr for IC. - WW still says that she cannot trust herself, thats why she wants out of the marriage, and will visit the OP when he comes to the city even though "he is not interested" in her, they're just friends. LOL - WW does not want to go for IC, but i am going. - I gave no hugs to my WW, even though about 4 or 5 were requested from her.
I am calm, I am in control and I know what i want from my life.
-I think you guys have a bad MC. Especially since she said there's no hope for couples counseling... what kind of counselor says that?? -WW doesn't trust herself because she's falling for someone else. She's clearly in an EA. In my experience/opinion, an EA is far worse than a PA. But they are both horrible. -WW not seeking out IC is a huge red flag. She doesn't want to change herself. -Good for you to stop physical contact. Are you still having sex with her?
What is it that you want from your life? Are you trying to save your marriage? Or are you walking away?
