Hi Rose, The coaching info can be found on top links under telephone coaching. The more you buy, the less it is. I think at least one session will give you the tools you'll need to get started.
DO NOT assume things will get normal if he suddenly "comes around", I foolishly lived in denial when things seemed to be stable. By the time my W agreed to counseling, it was only to tell me there was no hope. 3 times.
Your H needs to decide deeper issues besides what you're stating. Sparing you pain or living a fantasy - neither are realistic goals. A loving relationship - a real one - is.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)